The Brink is the best camping trip in the history of the world. No cell phones, no video games, and no deadlines. Just good, old-fashioned adventures in the middle of nowhere. Mountains, streams, slingshots, arrows, campfires, bug bites and more stars than you’ve ever seen.
While we know that some moms love sleeping on dirt, the Brink is reserved for dads and savages, boys and girls alike on an invite-only basis.
Hint to dads: treat your wife to a trip to the spa while you’re Brinking it—they certainly deserve it.
We’re considering heading to Bird Lake on the east side of Mt Adams for the first time.
Purpose
The Brink exists to give dads and their savages a chance to experience life and relationships out-of-bounds, beyond the confines of the everyday grind, where excitement, possibilities and a little bit of danger come together to make something called adventure.
Purpose
The Brink exists to give dads and their savages a chance to experience life and relationships out-of-bounds, beyond the confines of the everyday grind, where excitement, possibilities and a little bit of danger come together to make something called adventure.
The Brink isn’t just a trip to teach savages new tricks or enjoy the outdoors, though that will certainly happen. It’s about creating and deepening peer-to-peer and interfamily relationships. That isn’t to say that everybody has to become best friends or be especially outgoing—that isn’t realistic. Rather, it’s about creating opportunities for authentic relationships to bud, grow and deepen than wouldn’t naturally happen as we go about our daily lives.
The Brink is the perfect time to take a few risks and dare to do big things that could never happen in our safe and well-programmed daily lives. Dads provide a measure of sanity and wisdom to the affair, but are also expected to supply the biggest, craziest ideas. Through it, we’ll learn that opportunity is always around us, if we simply put ourselves in a position to embrace it.
Big adventures with friends will make up the stories of our lives for years to come. Years from now, we’ll still be saying, “remember that time when Jono ate that live squirrel?” Memories, shared with friends and strung together across many years, will leave us with something neither we nor our savages will ever forget.
Let’s show our kids how to be the hero of their own story. With our encouragement and their courage, savages will forge trails, conquer fears and glory in triumph. Sure, we’ll have fun, but the Brink goes a lot deeper. Year by year, stories and confidence together will grow. Some will become larger than life and be told to our grandkids, who will in turn be inspired to lead courageous lives. Along the way, our savages will grow up, confident and capable, ready to take on epic dreams and difficult challenges.
2022 location
Forlorn Lakes
2022 location
Forlorn Lakes
Nestled SW of Mt Adams, Forlorn Lakes is an epic spot. Bring float tubes, fishing poles, and an appetite for adventure.
6h 09m from Bellingham
Map it from Bellingham
4h 41m from Seattle
Map it from Seattle
2h 09m from Portland
Map it from Portland
The Brink is held at scenic and relatively remote locations. It will likely fall outside of cell service, so be prepared to go old school. Here are some tips:
Make sure to plan and coordinate before you leave. Assume you won’t have the ability to send or receive phone calls or texts.
Download the location and surrounding area in Google Maps on your phone and your phone GPS will still work. Learn how here.
Print or buy a good map.
Make a list of important destinations, like gas stations, before you leave.
Come prepared with a spare tire, jack and fix-a-flat. If you get a flat tire, calling for help might not be an option.
July 17-21
July 17-21
Travel
Camp set-up
Exploration
Hot dog dinner
Fireside
Breakfast
Exploration
Lunch
Free play
Dinner
Brink kick-off
Fireside
Breakfast
Optional field trip #1
Lunch
Free play
Dinner
Fireside
Breakfast
Optional field trip #2
Free play
Dinner
Fireside
Breakfast
Lunch
Free play
Dinner
Fireside
Breakfast
Pack up camp
Head home
Lunch on the road
The vibe
Complainers. Pessimists. Downers. You’re not welcome. We’re gonna find out what’s under that rock, how far we can see from the top of a mountain, and how many hot dogs the human stomach can hold. Think fun. Think together.
Think, “Why not?”
The vibe
Complainers. Pessimists. Downers. You’re not welcome. We’re gonna find out what’s under that rock, how far we can see from the top of a mountain, and how many hot dogs the human stomach can hold. Think fun. Think together.
Think, “Why not?”
We spend most of the year in the same routine. Not this week. We’re gonna run and explore and throw rocks and climb trees and trap squirrels. Get ready to say “yes” a whole lot more than normal.
The Brink is a great place to build confidence and have fun, so leave Debbie Downer in your home town. Get ready to dole out high fives and mad props as our kids (and you) discover new ways to take on the world.
Come prepared to connect with old friends and make new ones. Dads and savages are all in this together. Share what you have, borrow what you need. Work together. Play together. Take care of each other.
Cost
By sharing expenses, the cost-per-family is lower than if we all purchased everything separately. It’s called teamwork, y’all.
Cost
By sharing expenses, the cost-per-family is lower than if we all purchased everything separately. It’s called teamwork, y’all.
You can’t beat country-style flapjacks, eggs, links, bacon and fresh air for getting the day off to a great start.
We’ll serve up family-style dinners every evening.
For savages who can’t imagine anything better than a grandstander cooked over an open flame, we’ve got them covered. Enjoy all-you-can-eat all-beef dogs all day long.
Fresh water won’t be available where we’re going, so we’ll bring in a truck load.
Our camping outpost will be hours form the nearest refrigerator, and none of us want food poisoning, so we’ll bring plenty of ice.
Need we say more?
An ultra-soft Brink tee and a tuff trucker hat come standard for every Brinker. Who wants to bet that 80% of our savages never take them off?
We’ll cover campsite and vehicle fees.
We’ll bring two large propane tanks for cooking. Please note that they won’t be used to power your lanterns—you are on the hook for bringing your own little propane canisters.
To prevent tree diseases and foreign insects from entering National Forests, it’s illegal to bring in firewood from different areas. So, we’ll purchase legal firewood on the way to our outpost just in case natural firewood isn’t available.
All the boring stuff, like paper towels, foil, soap, garbage bags and cutlery.
You’ll want to bring 4-5 days worth of on-the-go types of lunches for your family. We recommend simple pleasures like bread, peanut butter, granola bars, chips, cookies, etc—the types of things that don’t need to be refrigerated, cooked or warmed up.
We’ll stick to the basics, so our dinners and breakfasts should work for most, but if you have special crackers that you just can’t live without, make sure to pack ’em.
It takes a bit of effort to get to where we’re going. You’re on the hook for that bit.
Preferences vary widely, so apart from trail mix, we’re leaving snacks up to you. Head to Costco and stock up on granola bars, jerky, gross raisins or whatever you’re into these days.
The Brink isn't a get-wasted type of camping trip, but if you want to bring some Pabst or some New Deal Whiskey, go for it. We want you to stay sharp for all the trouble your kids will be raising during the day though, so keep a lid on the spirits until the kids are sawing logs.
Prep
Given the remote location and level of adventure, the Brink isn’t your typical family camping trip. Use this as your prep cheat sheet.
Prep
Given the remote location and level of adventure, the Brink isn’t your typical family camping trip. Use this as your prep cheat sheet.
If you camp often then you probably have your gear list on lockdown. If not, use this as your guide.
Essentials
Sleeping bags and pillows
Extra blankets
Life jackets for all kids
Towels
Water bottles (bring one per camper)
Flashlights
Physical map of the area (don’t rely on your phone)
Spare tire, jack and tire iron
Fix-a-flat (it came in handy last year)
Extras
The Brink is the perfect time to introduce your kids to knife use and safety. Gerber’s Dime Micro is a great first folding knife.
Lantern with extra fuel
Feel free to bring your favorite play things, as long as they don’t need to be plugged in. But if you want to pack light, don’t worry—we’ll have more than enough stuff to share.
Ideas
Kayaks, canoes, float tubes or rafts
Goggles/swim gear
Musical instruments (banjo, ukulele, harmonica...)
Board games
Playing cards
Sketchpad with paints/pencils
We’ll bring a few fishing poles, but you’ll get more reps if you bring your own (this spinning rod works for kids and will probably last longer than this easier-to-use spincaster)
Frisbees
Telescope
Slackline
Don’t bring
Water balloons or squirt guns
Bicycles
Firearms
Paintball guns
Fireworks
Tablets, portable TVs or electronics
Evenings will be finished around the campfire. We’d love each family to share a few stories (real life or tall tales), a couple of songs (double-word score if you use an instrument) and a skit or two. If it’s too far outside your comfort zone, then don’t sweat it—but it will be a fun part of the week and the kids really love it.
Need some ideas? Get a book from the library or look online and you are sure to stumble upon some classics.
The days will be really hot, but the nights will be surprisingly cold. Make sure to pack clothes that can be layered. Also, make sure to pack a good pair of shoes or hiking boots that can take a beating, as well as shoes or flip flops that can be used near the water. One last thing—please prepare for mosquitos. Pack bug spray, bite-relief and some clothing that covers your skin for the evenings.
Basics
Two pairs of pants
Two pairs of shorts
Swimsuit/trunks
Six tee shirts
One long sleeve shirt
Six pairs of socks and unders
Sunglasses if you have sensitive eyes
Brimmed hat
Footwear
Water shoes (flip flops or Keens are great)
Sturdy, comfortable shoes (for hiking and running around)
Warmth
Fleece top or hoodie
Warm jacket
Beanie
Toiletries
Bug spray and bite-relief (as much as we like the idea of the DEET-free stuff, it definitely doesn't work as good)
Sunscreen (water-repellent if possible)
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Biodegradable soap/shampoo (optional for lake/river showers)
Chapstick
Apart from snacks, special items and alcohol, you shouldn’t have to worry about food or food related items.
Recommended
Enough food for 4-5 on-the-go lunches for your family (keep it simple: bread, peanut butter, chips, cookies, etc—the types of things that don’t need to be refrigerated, cooked or warmed up)
Snacks
Optional
Special foods or drinks
Bring a cooler and a bit of extra ice if you decide to bring lunch stuff that needs to stay cold.
Don’t worry about
Plates
Silverware
Cooking equipment
Every Brinker (dads and savages) should come prepared to share a skill or activity. Past skills have ranged from blowdart making to sewing to magic tricks. The key is to share something that you enjoy.
If you’re skill or activity requires supplies, please bring enough for 25 or so folks.
Here are a few items that we would love to have at the Brink, but haven’t locked down yet. If can bring any of them, let us know.
Non-motorized boats (i.e. canoe, raft, kayak)
Make it big
Make it big
Daily excursions
For those up to the challenge, we’ll set out on
two half-day adventures.
Daily excursions
For those up to the challenge, we’ll set out on
two half-day adventures.
So fresh and so clean
When the sun is high, the water will keep us cool. Come prepared for fishing, floating and plenty of swimming.
So fresh and so clean
When the sun is high, the water will keep us cool. Come prepared for fishing, floating and plenty of swimming.
Make sure to bring swim suits, towels, and water shoes to swim in. Non-swimmers or those still perfecting their stroke should bring a life jacket so that they can take part in the fun.
The waters around the Brink are manageable, but it's still wild out there, so we’ll check each swimming area to make sure there are no submerged stumps or Kraken nearby.
There won’t be lifeguards, but none of the kids will be in the water without one of the dads there to supervise. Additionally, one of the dads is a former lifeguard instructor and will teach the kids some useful lifesaving skills.
We know that many of the Brink savages are very accomplished swimmers. Regardless, life jackets are mandatory for all minors below the age of 16. While the waters are tame, we'd rather be safe than sorry when it comes to water safety.
Perfect your cannonball
Whether swimming from shore, floating in your life jacket or crossing to the other shore, come ready to dive in.
Perfect your cannonball
Whether swimming from shore, floating in your life jacket or crossing to the other shore, come ready to dive in.
Fish on!
While we can’t guarantee a record haul, we’re pretty darn sure there is action to be had. It’s the perfect setting for first-timers and experienced anglers to start and finish out each day.
Fish on!
While we can’t guarantee a record haul, we’re pretty darn sure there is action to be had. It’s the perfect setting for first-timers and experienced anglers to start and finish out each day.
Watercraft
The Brink is the perfect place to paddle around and strengthen your core. Feel free to bring canoes, surfboards, inner tubes—anything that floats.
Watercraft
The Brink is the perfect place to paddle around and strengthen your core. Feel free to bring canoes, surfboards, inner tubes—anything that floats.
Take aim
Get your Rambo on. But without the giant pecs
and explosive arrowheads.
Take aim
Get your Rambo on. But without the giant pecs
and explosive arrowheads.
We will do all of our shooting in groups, under the supervision of at least one of the dads; usually the one that brings the gear. This will keep savage-on-savage blood-letting to a minimum. If your family has gear and you are cool with following our safety rules, feel free to bring it to use and share.
The Brink will include archery, BB guns and slingshots. We don’t believe it will include bona-fide lead-shootin’ pistols, rifles or shotguns this year.
Airguns
Finally, the chance to shoot each others’ eyes out with Red Rider BB guns. Just kidding about the eyes. Not kidding about the BB guns.
Airguns
Finally, the chance to shoot each others’ eyes out with Red Rider BB guns. Just kidding about the eyes. Not kidding about the BB guns.
Rig something amazing
Let’s make things that our parents, bosses and wives would never approve of. Let’s unite our kids’ wildest dreams with the acumen of full-grown men. Think big, think fast, think ridiculous.
Rig something amazing
Let’s make things that our parents, bosses and wives would never approve of. Let’s unite our kids’ wildest dreams with the acumen of full-grown men. Think big, think fast, think ridiculous.
Skill share
We’re a curious bunch and we can’t wait to learn some new tricks this summer. Know any? Come ready to pass them on.
Skill share
We’re a curious bunch and we can’t wait to learn some new tricks this summer. Know any? Come ready to pass them on.
It would be rad if every dad and savage came prepared with a skill or interest to share with the other Brinkers. It’s a great way to connect and learn about what makes each of us unique.
Past skills have ranged from blowdart making to sewing to magic tricks.
If you love astronomy, then you could give us a tour of the cosmos. If you love animals, then you could share what types of creatures live around our outpost. If you love super heroes, then you could show people how to draw them. Remember, it’s about you, so make it personal.
If you’re skill or activity requires supplies, please bring enough for 25 or so folks. We realize that is a lot of people, so keep it simple and inexpensive.
Fireside
Without TVs or video games, we’ll entertain ourselves when the sun goes down. To keep it from devolving into a rousing chorus of fart noises and burning sticks, we’ll center each night around a different campfire activity.
Fireside
Without TVs or video games, we’ll entertain ourselves when the sun goes down. To keep it from devolving into a rousing chorus of fart noises and burning sticks, we’ll center each night around a different campfire activity.
Once the savages are tucked away, dads can stay up as late as they want telling absurd stories that no one believes. This is when we can get real and connect on a level a few notches higher than fart jokes. If you brought a flask or something classy like Pabst, this is the appropriate time to take it out and share it, although heads up, the Brink isn’t the right place to get slizzard.
Grow a meatstache
What’s a meatstache? Great question. Here are a few more.
Grow a meatstache
What’s a meatstache? Great question. Here are a few more.
Can we kill things?
Yes, but you have to eat anything you kill, and that is not negotiable. So far, this rule has kept the killing to zero while keeping the excitement of hunting and trapping alive.
Is it just for fathers and sons?
No, bring your daughters as well—they’ll have a great time.
My wife was a girl scout and she loves camping. Can she come?
Nope. While there are plenty of moms that love the outdoors, one of our goals is to give dads and kids adventures together. Let’s give the moms a bit of peace and quiet—they deserve it.
Tip: book an Airbnb or spa day for your wife and her friends while you and your savages are in the wilderness.
Will we be hiking in to our camp site?
Our camp site is remote, but your car will be able to get you there.
What type of vehicle do I need? Can my minivan hack it?
Yes, your Sienna can hack it, however, the roads might be rough in patches, so come prepared with a working jack, tire iron, spare, and a can of Fix-a-Flat.
Can I bring my RV?
Nope.
What if we have specific food requirements or allergies?
Let us know and we can chat about it.
What if someone gets hurt?
So far we’ve kept injuries to bumps and slivers, but we come prepared just in case. In addition to bringing a giant first-aid kit, one of the dads is a former EMT and we’ll pre-plot routes to the nearest ranger station and hospital.
Are there trails to ride bikes?
Not sure, but don’t bring your bikes. The other kids won’t have them, and our goal is to do activities that everybody can participate in. Plus, we want to tread lightly and bikes tends to trash remote trails pretty quickly.
What about bears?
We'll be way out in the woods which means it might be bear country, but we’ll teach (and put into practice) responsible camping practices, such as putting food into cars at night, that greatly minimize any run-ins with Winnie the Pooh. Don't sweat this one.
Can I bring my dog?
No. We all saw Old Yeller so we know what happens when pets meet wild animals. Even if she's sweet as can be, your dog is a wild animal magnet.
How young is too young?
Every kid is different so we don’t have any hard and fast age rules, but 6-years-old is a good age to start thinking about it. If you aren’t sure if one of your kids is old enough, use the hatchet test. Simply stated, if you asked your child not to play with a hatchet that's lying on the ground, would they obey even if you weren’t around? If the answer is yes, bring ’em. If the answer is no, then save them a finger or two and leave them at home.
FWIW, most of the kids fall in the 7-13 range, but there are several older and younger savages.
Will we have cell reception?
Maybe, maybe not—which is a good thing. It’s hard to stay plugged-in to your work emails when you have zero bars and a dead battery. In turn, that makes it easier to plug into everybody else.
Will Google Maps or GPS work?
As cell coverage drops off, Google Maps might eventually stop working, but a GPS unit should still work. Make sure to print off directions and maps. You gotta get old school.
So, how will my wife get a hold of me?
She likely won't be able to.
Serious?
Yep.
Are you in?
If you were invited to the Brink, it means that someone really likes you. It also means that you should come.
Are you in?
If you were invited to the Brink, it means that someone really likes you. It also means that you should come.
Photo credits Gabe Rodriguez